1. Karris, M. (2019) Death and Life by a Thousand Cuts: Lessons Learned from the Deconstructive/Reconstructive Journey. Counseling and Family Therapy Scholarship Review: Vol. 2: Iss. 1, Article 2.
Abstract- Questioning one’s faith and beliefs about God, church, and their religion can be an excruciating experience. Since we all have an innate need to belong, feel safe, and be loved, we can be reticent to question and doubt our faith due to fear of rejection and isolation from two major figures: God and the church. For many people, it is not easy to separate the two. For some, the fear of losing God’s love, even momentarily, is terrifying. For others, the thought of leaving their beliefs behind may also feel like they have to leave their religious tribe behind, which can be just as anxiety provoking. Yet, there comes a point where a person must simply choose to live life authentically. Feeling the lure of God to move in a certain theological direction may at times take precedence over the risk of suffering the social consequences of exclusion. Following the leading of God’s voice may also take precedence over pretending and living a lie according to other people’s religious projections of how one should live and what one should believe. This article explores the journey of a therapist and ordained pastor who chose to leave the comfort of his religious beliefs and faith community and shares vital lessons learned throughout the process.
KEYWORDS- deconstruction, doubt, faith, reconstruction, spirituality
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2. Karris, M. & Arger, K. (2019) “Religious Couples Re-Storying After Infidelity: Using Narrative Therapy Interventions with a Focus on Attachment,” Counseling and Family Therapy Scholarship Review: Vol. 2: Iss. 1, Article 5.
Abstract– Attachment-focused narrative interventions used with religious couples of the Abrahamic faiths (Judaism, Christianity and Islam) dealing with the effects of infidelity is discussed in this article. With religious couples, the couple attachment bond is commonly harmed after infidelity. The attachment bond with God can also be affected with one or both partners. Partners who once felt close and connected with God can feel angry and distant because of infidelity. Since the Abrahamic faiths are narrative-based religions, and an attachment bond with God is essential, attachment-focused narrative interventions can help couples re-story their relationship with each other and with God. Attachment-based narrative interventions are also illustrated using case examples to help practitioners collaborate with religious couples to co-author new narratives and journey toward empowered futures.
KEYWORDS- infidelity, religion, divine struggle, attachment theory, narrative therapy
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