A practical book for couples

Beyond
Fairy Tales

A Couple’s Guide to Finding Clarity, Doing the Work, and Building a Lasting Relationship

You may love each other and still struggle to get along. This book offers practical ways to understand each other, handle difficult conversations, and feel closer.

Digital bundle: book PDF, audiobook, workbook, and couples reflection guide · $21.99

Dr. Mark Gregory Karris

Dr. Mark Gregory Karris, LMFTCouples therapist · Author · San Diego

Beyond Fairy Tales by Dr. Mark Gregory Karris — book cover

A PRACTICAL GUIDE FOR COUPLES

CommunicationTrustIntimacy

Inside the book

What you’ll find in the book

You may be struggling to get along or simply wanting to take better care of a relationship you value.

We’ll look at the arguments you keep having, the hurts underneath them, and what each of you can do differently.

For couples trying to get along and feel closer.

  1. Rethink your expectations

    Move beyond idealized expectations and make room for a more honest, compassionate relationship.

  2. Work through hurt and rebuild trust

    Understand old hurts and explore what it takes to feel safer with each other again.

  3. Navigate the hard moments

    Recognize the cycles that keep you stuck and discover new ways to respond.

  4. Communicate with care

    Learn to say what you’re feeling and listen to what your partner is trying to tell you.

  5. Deepen your intimacy

    Talk more openly about emotional closeness, sex, and what helps you feel connected.

Beyond Fairy Tales book coverBeyond Fairy Tales companion workbook with handouts and worksheets

Book PDF · Audiobook · Workbook PDF · Reflection guide PDF

The digital bundle

The Beyond Fairy Tales Bundle

Read or listen to the book, then use the workbook and reflection guide to try the exercises and talk through what you’re learning together.

  1. The complete book PDF

    Read on your device or print a copy for yourself.

  2. The audiobook

    Download the audio file through Google Drive.

  3. The companion workbook PDF

    Handouts, worksheets, and reflection exercises to put the book’s ideas into practice.

  4. The couples reflection guide PDF

    Questions for each chapter to reflect on your own and discuss together.

$21.99 USD · one-time purchase

After payment, your order and email will include all three PDF downloads and a Google Drive link to the audiobook. This is a digital bundle; the print book is sold separately.
All sales of this digital bundle are final and nonrefundable, except where required by law.

Praise for Beyond Fairy Tales

What fellow therapists
and authors are saying

Perspectives from therapists, authors, and educators on Beyond Fairy Tales.

“Karris offers an engaging, resource-rich book to bring life to stale or shaky relationships. In a practical, at-times humorous, and always-down-to earth style, he creates a roadmap for a rewarding journey towards love. You are certain to enrich yourself as a person and as a partner by reading this book!”

Lorrie Brubacher

—Lorrie Brubacher

M.Ed., Director of the Carolina Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy, author of Stepping into Emotionally Focused Therapy: Key Ingredients of Change, 2nd ed. (2025)

“I want to offer my enthusiastic support for Beyond Fairytales. I find the straightforward language, fresh ideas and practical solutions to be ones from which any couple can benefit.”

David Mars

—David Mars

Ph.D., Director of the Center for Transformative Therapy, Developer of Transformative Couples Therapy®

“Wondering what good couples therapy looks like? This book beautifully illuminates the process and possibilities…Filled with sage, practical advice, and understanding, this book is a gift to couples everywhere.” 

Michelle Becker

—Michelle Becker

Author of Compassion for Couples: Building the Skills of Loving Connection

“In this comprehensive, well-written, and inspiring guide to revitalizing connection between partners in an intimate relationship, Mark covers everything from romance to the operating manual for different attachment styles to personal well-being. I highly recommend this book for couples who are suffering and therapists who are helping them.”

Polly Young-Eisendrath

—Polly Young-Eisendrath

Ph.D., Author of “Love Between Equals” and “Dialogue Therapy for Couples and Real Dialogue for Opposing Sides”

“There are many books about relationships with practical pointers and some based on solid science, but very few that truly have both. This book does both and is a huge gift to our culture, which is often quite disoriented about what actually makes relationships work. “Beyond Fairy Tales…” is a difference-maker, and I am excited to see its impact on readers!”

Ryan Rana

—Ryan Rana

President and Founder of the Arkansas EFT Center, Co-host of the Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast and successinvulnerability.com

“Beyond Fairy Tales provides readers with a quenching gulp from the deep wisdom well of attachment theory. Mark expertly guides partners through difficult conversations and delivers the practical and innovative tools necessary to take their relationship to the next level.”

George Faller

—George Faller

LMFT, EFT trainer, president of the New York Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy (NYCEFT), and coauthor of Emotionally Focused Family Therapy

“Karris’ humility and pragmatism, honed by years of experience as a couples’ therapist guides the reader in taking their relationship from distress to recovery. This is a gem of a book that will become a tender companion for anyone seeking to nurture their most precious bonds.”

Clare Rosoman

—Clare Rosoman

D.Psych., EFT Trainer, Director of the Brisbane Centre for Emotionally Focused Therapy, Author of Repairing Attachment Injuries in Close Relationships: An Emotionally Focused Guide to Moving Beyond Betrayal (2025)
“Beyond Fairy Tales is wonderful!  In his clear and humorous way, Dr. Kerris presents some of the most valuable insights and tools from the world of couple therapy and research.  The book is easy to read, practical, and will be immensely useful to anyone wanting to improve their relationship!”
Scott R Woolley

—Scott R Woolley

PhD, distinguished professor at Alliant International University, EFT trainer, and founding director of the San Diego Center for EFT and TRIEFT Alliant
“Beyond Fairy Tales delivers! It is a compassionately tailored guidebook for everyday couples who are in need of refreshment and change in their relationship.”
Anabelle Bugatti 'Dr. Belle'

—Anabelle Bugatti 'Dr. Belle'

PhD, LMFT, Author of Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship, President of Southern NV EFT

“Mark creates an approachable framework for harnessing and transforming emotional experience into forces for connection and relational satisfaction for any couple willing to do the work.”

Michael Barnett

—Michael Barnett

D.Psych., EFT Trainer, Director of the Brisbane Centre for Emotionally Focused Therapy, Author of Repairing Attachment Injuries in Close Relationships: An Emotionally Focused Guide to Moving Beyond Betrayal (2025), Author of The Emotionally Focused Therapy Workbook for Addiction: How to Heal the Loneliness and Shame That Trigger Addictive Behaviors

“Beyond Fairy Tales is a playful and invigorating exploration for couples, offering a powerful resource to strengthen relationships. Karris provides fresh insights, empathetic compassion for the challenges couples face, and practical strategies for growing stronger together.”

Jim Thomas

—Jim Thomas

EFT Trainer Emeritus, Clinical Fellow, LMFT

“This book will give you the compassionate guidance and hope necessary to create lasting change.”

Shane Birkel

—Shane Birkel

Host of the Couples Therapist Couch podcast
The Beyond Fairy Tales couple holding hands and looking lovingly at each other.

Your next chapter

Choose the print book or digital bundle.

The print book is available on Amazon. The $21.99 digital bundle includes the book PDF, audiobook, workbook, and couples reflection guide.